For me it’s time signatures in music. I grew up playing instruments, played in several orchestras, etc. But no matter how many times someone tries to explain time signatures to me, it makes no sense. I don’t understand why people place such importance on it. To me, notes have a pitch and a duration, maybe some dynamics. That’s it. I don’t understand why people try to needlessly complicate it. It doesn’t give you anything.

My wife will hear a song and go “Oh neat, it’s in 5/8.” And I’m like “How tf do you know that, and why does it matter?”

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    I’m gonna go meta on this one:

    I don’t understand how some people just know that they can do things from the get-go. Like from their early teens on.

    It took me until age 50 to understand who is holding me back: me.

    There’s very little I don’t think I can grasp now. Anything another human can do, so can I. I could have been a doctor or a musician or a chemical engineer or Michelin starred chef if had believed in myself like other people do.

    How??? Why did they know they could do these things???

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      some people are more intuitive than others at learning things. others have to take repeated pratices to make it work. im the latter.

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      We didn’t. What could go wrong if we fail? Nothing? Cool. See you at the finish.

      We could die? CATCH ME IF YOU CAN, BITCHES!!

      Maybe you care too much about your own life. Try having no will to live.

      I am joking. Mostly.

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      I had this realization when I decided to rebuild the carburetor on my old mustang. After taking it apart I was absolutely paralyzed by then realized that some schmuck designed it, so surely I could just put it back together