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      You may not be aware of this or do it intentionally but responding “what about the men” when the topic focuses on “women” is a common frustration online.

      The reverse scenario, where the focus is men rarely gets a comment “how about women”

      You’re technically not wrong though, everyone could be affected and i do expect journalistic pieces to be inform more broadly about an issue, but the issue does seem to disproportionally affect people who appear to be women and its also fair to note this difference.

      I am sure there is no ill will on your part but i have seen online “fights” break out over this pattern. At first it confused me but once you understand it, you notice it everytime even when the post is by and for women and posted on a women focused community it will get a comment like this.

      There are enough articled and discussions calling out the meta privacy issue in a non gendered way. The few adressing women are not harming any man.

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        I wanted to take a moment to applaud your reasoned and articulate response. tldr : well said.

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          Having done a few clicks to look into why this specific article is gendered.

          Cybernews is reporting an article By NL times

          The article by NL times was already gendered.

          NL Times has wrote other non gendered articles on this issue but this article was prompted by a lawsuit being prepared by Offlimits

          Offlimits is an organization that combats sexual abuse.

          The context of this Lawsuit is the discovery of telegram and other channels for the distribution of “creepshots”, often sexually pictures taken from compromising angles.

          The victims of these creepshots are almost always women.

          Its similar to catcalling. It does happen to both genders but if it happens to men its a noticeable rare event. By the time a women reaches adulthood its another tuesday.