It’s been a long road but when I met GF I knew I wanted to date her and that I didn’t want to cheat. She is happily married and was already poly so I talked to my wife about it. It was suuuuper weird at first, but now we’re all friends. The most important thing about being poly- what makes it poly instead of just cheating- is openness and honesty. Just be honest and everything will work out for you.
Ok so to be poly everyone involved has to be good with it, and if you’re not comfortable then it’s not poly; it’s cheating. My wife wasn’t comfortable at first so we talked about it and now she is, but it’s definitely not for everyone. The mononormative worldview in our society is DEEPLY ingrained. For the people in my polycule it’s healthy and good for us, and all four of us have a good relationship with each other.
How you adjust?
It’s been a long road but when I met GF I knew I wanted to date her and that I didn’t want to cheat. She is happily married and was already poly so I talked to my wife about it. It was suuuuper weird at first, but now we’re all friends. The most important thing about being poly- what makes it poly instead of just cheating- is openness and honesty. Just be honest and everything will work out for you.
so if like my wife ask that poly with her senior so its good?
Ok so to be poly everyone involved has to be good with it, and if you’re not comfortable then it’s not poly; it’s cheating. My wife wasn’t comfortable at first so we talked about it and now she is, but it’s definitely not for everyone. The mononormative worldview in our society is DEEPLY ingrained. For the people in my polycule it’s healthy and good for us, and all four of us have a good relationship with each other.
hey can i share thing on here?
Yeah totally
yes now we comforatbale so its good if we all in one place?
I’d say so
Not getting