Deathgrip is a real problem, and i think it’s pretty common. Regardless of what can be seen on the internet, I imagine most people are crankin one out as fast as possible in most day-to-day life. Before you have to be somewhere or have an event, or after, or you just have limited private time because of spouse, family, roommates, whatever. Deathgrip is an easy step to take to get it done quick.

The problem is, once you get used to it, it can really mess up your sensitivity (along with normal aging, health, etc affecting it). Once I figured that out, I started being more deliberately gentle. Looser grip, lube of some kind being a must, more playful strokes and touches. I quit caring if I finished before I ran out of personal time. Just made it when I finally did cum, that much better.

Highly recommend getting some vibe toys too. There’s this sleeve that attaches to a hitachi that I dont even move once I’m in, and the vibrations hit juuuuust right. I suppose that isn’t hands free, but it’s a huge win for my sensitivity personally.