I clarify:

Someone has experience in this, or you know people who have done this? I understand that this is disgusting, but I am very interested. I’m interested in hearing real stories with consequences.

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      24 hours ago

      How did you decide it was something you wanted to do/get into?

      Who do you have sex with more often - your husband or people other than him?

      Is swinging something you attend consistently like a sport club or something you do “seasonally” when you two really feel like it?

      If it is more of a routine obligation/club, does that mean people sometimes turn up but don’t feel like having sex?