Also, for the sake of maximising engagement - what mistakes did adults in-general make when interacting with you as a kid, that you avoid replicating today?

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    1 day ago

    Hitting your kids: don’t fucking do that. You might not ever see them when they reach adulthood.

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      23 hours ago

      Forget the selfish reason. Just don’t hit people because you can’t control your emotions.

      If you won’t hit your boss don’t hit your kid.

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        23 hours ago

        It is exceptionally hard for children to be removed for child abuse.

        Especially if the mother is the one doing it. It must leave visible marks and be documents by a doctor or a policeman . It needs to show a pattern and be obvious the amount of force was excessive. This needs to happen several times to show a pattern. Must be documented.

        That only begins the cps process.

        You(only moms?) 100% absolutely can hit your kids so long as you don’t hospitalize them. It fucking sucks to watch from the side .