I’ve posted quite a bit on here since I created my account, posts I consider non-controversial, since I’m not interested in arguing or getting into heated topics like politics. Even so, I still get the occasional snarky comment. Out of curiosity, I sometimes check the person’s post history when I see something like that, and without fail, their profile is full of snarky, negative, or hateful posts overall. It always makes me wonder: do people like this genuinely get enjoyment from surrounding themselves with negativity? What’s the thought process behind it?
My experience with the conservative bubble is not one of assurance. When I was a kid the news was constantly about how Christianity is under attack from The Liberals and we’re on the brink of annihilation, all the time. One of the other signatures of repressive societies is that, even if you are visibly “in” via whiteness, maleness, overt Christian displays, etc. there are always enemies among us, socialists or gays or whatever the invisible enemy du jour is. And even if you aren’t gay or socialist, there is always a risk of being percieved as such and expelled from the community. That threat of expulsion is ever-present and requires constant displays of conformity to quell suspicion. You quit going to church, you laugh too much with another man, you have a Democratic mailer lying around your house, any of these are grounds for being exiled by your community. It’s constant stress, by design.