• AstralPath@lemmy.ca
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    For most people never.

    Petulant middle-aged children as far as the eye can see with few exceptions.

  • daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    When you are legally considered that in your country’s law. Any other distinction is fuzzy and unlikely to be really useful.

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      No guarantee that you are gonna be an adult once you reach a certain age treshold, though. There are many children in grown people’s bodies out there.

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    When they start thinking about the consequences of their actions, and act accordingly instead of following pure impulse.

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    When I was in college (so maybe 20 or 21 years old), I asked my mom when I would start feeling like an adult. Without missing a beat, she said “I dunno. If you find out, let me know!” <3

    I guess I started feeling more like a “real” adult when I started working full-time and rented a house instead of an apartment, though now even that pales in comparison to when I finally purchased my own home. Each phase of life feels more “grown-up” than the last, with new perspectives, greater understanding of my relationships with God and people, and matured confidence going into the new phase’s challenges. And yet I’m still me at heart–as I like to call it, “a big kid with bills.” I am very blessed.

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    I remember one time someone told me “being an adult is when you realise you can cook yourself bacon whenever you want, and just eat it, and nobody will stop you”.

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    Well, in the legal sense, I suppose it has to do with contracts and contract law. Some time ago in the US, it was determined that 18 was the legal age for adulthood because by then a person would be old enough to understand the terms of a contract and hold to those terms. Marriage is a contract. Military service is a contract. Getting a loan/mortgage is a contract.

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    for me it was when I was responsible for more than just myself.

    I’m responsible for my spouse, my kids, the team I managed, etc.

    I have to say, it’s not worth it 🤣

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    A child knows the adult drink is coffee.

    A teenager knows the adult drink is alcohol.

    An adult knows the adult drink is water.