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Cake day: April 4th, 2025

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  • I’ve been NC since i was 17, 22 years ago. She has that info and has tried to find me. That info doesn’t help her, but social media does. Even if i don’t really use it, i have friends who do. Then again, those old connections either fade away over time or become close enough that they know the story so that nothing gets back to her.

    My brother is far from redeemable but sounds like yours is worse. One benefit I’ve found is that if everyone sucks, you can just go NC from the whole group without guilt.

    I’m very glad that you see the world as i see it, that there are good people as well as bad people, and we can prioritize how we spend our energy. The quality I needed most was resiliency, and it sounds like you’ve got it. You’ve got this.