grrgyle

If it’s not a server then it’s getting turned off when I’m not using it

Nah

🫡 I’m going to try pressure my employer to do the same. Like is this thing saving anybody money??

Rofl his eyes uncovered!

I’m rooting for you. I had the good fortune of chancing on some sexually assertive woman early on, and it kind of led me accidentally to your own realization: that I want to be desired and subjected to a lustful gaze in addition to doing the same.

Although it sounds like some flavour of gentle bdsm would probably suit you. That community is also much better at communicating their specific desires, like you have shown here. So even if you aren’t into dominance play, you are probably into some control swapping fantasies.

And by “fantasies” I don’t mean some elaborate play-acted scenario, but specifically what you described, discussed ahead of time, and then played out for mutual pleasure.

This becomes very obvious if you see anything generated for a field you know intimately.