wfh 99.9% since 2020. my slice of software dev has really embraced it as part of the culture - most job opps are still remote, enough to filter out any in person or hybrid. love it, could never go back to commuting and socializing in person. i struggle sometimes with productivity/adhd but that happened in the office too. so many days just spent fiddling on my phone with one ear listening for footsteps. i keep getting hired/promoted so despite my shortfalls i must be doing something right.

legiterally

Tankies as a whole, no.

the litmus test for tankies is whether they blindly support modern era china, russia, and nk, all authright (wannabe) empires. what do you think a tankie is?

nothing much to say. the social board is mostly a gooner cesspit but you find some intelligent, offbeat people searching for human connection and extreme consensual kink there, too. gender ratio isn’t much worse than other platforms (it’s actually worst on fetlife, which is a whole other can of beans).

on lemmy? no lol

i’ve had mixed successes on reddit, 4chan, and discord - seeking particularly kinky women.

it totally depends on the person and their life