My partner and I don’t have ANY tv’s.

Neither of us are super into TV or film in a way that builds creativity or community (we don’t critique the technical or artistic merits of pieces, and we aren’t into anime or other genres where there’s potential to build a community around a shared passion). When we turn on the TV, it’s to turn off our brains. We decided to not build a shrine to turning off our brains.

We have a laptop with a good screen and speakers that we use when we want to watch something together.

We should be friends.

Went through a nasty breakup, hit the dating apps, had a few terrible dates and then started spending more time pursuing hobbies. Made friends through hobby groups (skiing and mountaineering in my case) and one of those friends has now been my partner for over a decade.

Shared interest groups are the way to go IMO.