This is a good way to kill a relationship, don’t pop kinks on someone like that. Especially if they’re used to being the submissive partner, not everybody is capable of switching
There is a middle ground between keeping everything to yourself and rolling up on your partner wearing a chastity cage and collar without any communication about it.
Your partner may love doing this… Start simply on Valentine’s Day and tell them to take the lead
This is a good way to kill a relationship, don’t pop kinks on someone like that. Especially if they’re used to being the submissive partner, not everybody is capable of switching
I mean, you’ve got to have a certain level of tact, but keeping your desires to yourself will definitely do some damage in the long run.
There is a middle ground between keeping everything to yourself and rolling up on your partner wearing a chastity cage and collar without any communication about it.