Tell me something about how you love to be treated in bed that people would never guess from your public persona

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    12 days ago

    Your partner may love doing this… Start simply on Valentine’s Day and tell them to take the lead

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      11 days ago

      This is a good way to kill a relationship, don’t pop kinks on someone like that. Especially if they’re used to being the submissive partner, not everybody is capable of switching

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        11 days ago

        I mean, you’ve got to have a certain level of tact, but keeping your desires to yourself will definitely do some damage in the long run.

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          11 days ago

          There is a middle ground between keeping everything to yourself and rolling up on your partner wearing a chastity cage and collar without any communication about it.