Tell me something about how you love to be treated in bed that people would never guess from your public persona
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I am and have always been in heterosexual relationships, to the outside world that is anyone sees. But when I was 18 I wanted to explore my curiosity of being with another guy. I met a guy on craigslist who was twice my age but lived close, and was hot.
I met him at his house, he said he wanted me to experience what it was like to feel like a girl. I let him shave me from the neck down (my face was already clean shaven), lock me in chastity, dress me up like a girl in lacy lingere, panties, bra, garter, stockings, and a summer dress. I already had long hair so he styled it and put makeup on me, I really looked like a girl by the end. I won’t go into all the details here but he did as he promised and made me feel like girl on prom night. This went on for about a week.
That sounds like a great week! Where do you find yourself on the gender spectrum these days? Was it just a kink thing?
It was a great week, learned a lot about femininity through experience which I think helped make me a better partner today. On the gender spectrum I am male, no ambiguity there. It might have been just a kink thing, maybe mixed with some curiosity and desire to experience what it was like to be the more submissive partner.
I’ve never had sex but I’d like a woman to dominate me. Nothing too crazy though. More like a gentle femdom mommy domme type thing. Like i’m kinky but not super kinky. I kind of want someone bossy but also really sweet. Is this too much information?
In my life I’m in a leadership role, I keep everything running, and even dominate my partner pretty regularly. I work and fuck hard.
In my deepest darkest fantasies, I wear nothing but a sub collar, cook, clean, give oral on demand, and live in chastity. I wait for my mistress to come home and she rides my face and I thank her afterwards, massaging her feet.
Your partner may love doing this… Start simply on Valentine’s Day and tell them to take the lead
This is a good way to kill a relationship, don’t pop kinks on someone like that. Especially if they’re used to being the submissive partner, not everybody is capable of switching
I mean, you’ve got to have a certain level of tact, but keeping your desires to yourself will definitely do some damage in the long run.
There is a middle ground between keeping everything to yourself and rolling up on your partner wearing a chastity cage and collar without any communication about it.
In day to day life I’m a pretty easy going guy who just leaves people alone to do whatever they want to do.
In the bedroom I will (consensually, ofc) degrade you like the worthless little cock slut you are.
That’s hot. I don’t like a control freak in general, just love when guys get turned on by being in control in the bedroom, it’s this feedback loop, it turns me on, that turns them on, which turns me on! Seeing that change when they get into it. I bet you have no trouble finding people who like sex with you.
It’s such an intense rush letting your instincts take over! You can just go full monkey brained and fulfill your sexual desires free from the front you put on every day. And it’s amazing when someone enthusiastically submits to you and gets pleasure out of being roughed up a little bit with hair pulling and the like.
I’m not super sexually active but I do hope the girlfriends I’ve had sex with have enjoyed it! I would like to start having sex more casually though.
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This is one I haven’t told anyone about before: https://lemmynsfw.com/post/36373449
mega hot
I’m relatively submissive in my life. I just find it easier to do as I’m told at work and stuff like that but a tiny part of me loves the idea of tying a guy up and being a little dominant but only if it was the right guy. Guess that would make me a switch
Well I may be the polar opposite, I’m relatively powerful at work although I do make sure to bring others along with me and empower them. I’m relatively dominant in my relationships although that obviously varies according to my partners. However, there is something very appealing about a woman with a strapon , turning the tables, showing me who’s boss and reinforcing it by making me cum all around that cock!
Damn! Shame you look too young for my tastes, I’d love just that. I’m rather short and soft…
I love this prompt! I’m generally calm, reasonable, and I dont shy away from the occasional dad joke or pun. I dont look like a stereotypical “nerd”, but I definitely am one, and I don’t care who knows it. I’m also a little bit of a people pleaser due to some hardcore empathy that was driven into me at a young age (thanks mom and dad).
Now, take all the above and imagine for a second a huge fantasy of mine:
Live in, free use, sex pet. Without going into all the details, it’s a specific living arrangement where rent is free, come and go as you please, but when you’re home you’re ready to go at *most times. I really want to push the limits of hardcore use (sexual side) accompanied with intense aftercare (empathic side). Always down to go into more detail if you want hop in my DMs.
Oh, I’m pretty sure nobody guesses anything about my sexual preferences from my everyday look and behavior, except the fact I am open-minded, not prudish or judgey.
That’s pretty much as I imagined tbh. You speak authentically on here and I’m sure you conduct yourself impeccably. It doesn’t really answer the question though!
Well one I guess, met my husband on FetLife, together 14 years so far :). We just say “online”.
Although again, I could probably hazard a guess!
People think I’m sexually adventurous and kinky, but in reality missionary is my jam.
