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    I will eat lasagna every year for Christmas dinner until I am in the grave, and I am perfectly fine with the fact that I was bullied into this by all the Italian ancestors who came before me because lasagna is delicious.

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    Tradition is innovation that survived long enough to stop being questioned.

    or

    Tradition is a solution that forgot the problem it solved.

    Yours feel unnecessarily disrespectful.

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      I get the sentiment, though doesn’t it seem unfair to assume all tradition has such grounding? Plus, disrespect is the mechanism for weeding out harmful or redundant traditions. It’s fine.

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        Something with mental health & workload I believe. His wife is running the channel now which is okay but it’s different. I really hope he’s doing well but understandable that any youtuber could get burned out, especially with the subject matter he was covering.

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    In a modern society, generation by generation, we choose what tradition is acceptable to keep and what is not. We’ve abandoned many more traditions than we have kept, so they aren’t inherently sacred and unquestionable.

    Anyone who wants to keep a tradition that causes harm is just malicious.

    But there were plenty of traditions out there that just add richness to a culture, that stuff is good as long as no one gets hurt

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    Tradition is brainwashing younger people that they should keep doing what you did even after you’re gone.

    Not that every tradition is bad, or that everything should be done differently. Humans learn from the previous generations, that’s a fundamental of our existence. But the way some traditions are imposed onto the young despite all issues with them sucks. It’s about balance and not being dogmatic, I guess.

    • Speaking of brainwashing, its just do easy for a parent to abuse their position of power and like manipulate their children however they want.

      Like if you got born into a crime family, you would have no choice but to live your childhood/teen years doing their bidding…

      You could be born into a family of racists, a family of terrorists (think: Bin Laden), or a morally corrupt rich family (like: every politician ever)

      Brainwashing is even more effective when you show affection 50% of the time.

      But I think I just have a better “sus meter” than my mom anticipated, I detect her her bullshit all the time. Mom thinks I’m a gullible little servant that will obey her for the rest of her life. I guess being birthed by a manipulator naturally give you that BS Detector DNA?

      But my brain is so weird… I get weirdly attached to my… emotionally abusive mother… I think I might have a bit of stockholm syndrome… I think I just really fanticise about the idea of family that I always desired…

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        yes, most people have mommy/daddy issues. they say the first step towards true personal growth is identifying/dealing with those issues

        also, yes, most people want that happy family dynamic

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    Tradition is something silly. Endlessly redoing the same things at a fixed time just because…

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      Tradition is the thing we convince ourselves to keep doing because it was done before.

      The things that worked are the things we keep doing without calling it a tradition.

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        I’m not comparing actual tradition (setting up the Christmas tree to celebrate the passing of the shortest night) with a made up story.

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          ok…how was the “real” tradition of christmas (which stole the original tradition of the tree) an “experiment,” and how did it “work”?

          edit: that’s what i thought. maybe next time, try to figure out what it is you’re trying to say before you try to say it

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        Shirley Jackson didn’t write any stories about towns where nothing happens. Survival of the fittest twist.