Online dating is a bit of a misnomer. It’s not dating. It allows people to optimize selection based on superficiality, and stops anyone from from getting to know anyone. It’s also high stakes because arranged meets with matches are purpose driven.
Put it down. Turn it off. Go do something you love and meet people. All sorts of people. Have fun, casually. Somewhere in there, you’ll find someone special.
(Not directed to you OP, just online daters in general)
Online dating is a bit of a misnomer. It’s not dating. It allows people to optimize selection based on superficiality, and stops anyone from from getting to know anyone. It’s also high stakes because arranged meets with matches are purpose driven.
Put it down. Turn it off. Go do something you love and meet people. All sorts of people. Have fun, casually. Somewhere in there, you’ll find someone special.
(Not directed to you OP, just online daters in general)
One small problem: Almost no third places in my local area.
Pubs n Bars?
I hate alcohol.
Ya got to make your third places (great words of encouragment).
Although in my case its tabletop games… That one sorta awards negitive points.
What is your city I will find you some
You’re trying to dox me, aren’t you?
Not everyone lives in cities
Sure I just meant like closest city to you
Choices abound. Make one, move, stretch your legs a bit?
A hobby is the best way to meet someone.