
I feel like we shouldn’t be so dramatic about sex (while it’s between consenting adults). I should be seen as a simple physical activity, healthy and pleasant, that demands skills and practice, with preventable risks. Like lots of non competitive physical activities, actually.

As far as I know, it’s part of gay culture. It involves frequenting places well known to the community (parks, bars, saunas, etc.) where other men look for partners for quick sex.