Tell me something about how you love to be treated in bed that people would never guess from your public persona

  • aycaramba@lemmynsfw.com
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    12 days ago

    In my life I’m in a leadership role, I keep everything running, and even dominate my partner pretty regularly. I work and fuck hard.

    In my deepest darkest fantasies, I wear nothing but a sub collar, cook, clean, give oral on demand, and live in chastity. I wait for my mistress to come home and she rides my face and I thank her afterwards, massaging her feet.

    • dugmeup@lemmynsfw.com
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      12 days ago

      Your partner may love doing this… Start simply on Valentine’s Day and tell them to take the lead

      • WallsToTheBalls@lemmynsfw.com
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        11 days ago

        This is a good way to kill a relationship, don’t pop kinks on someone like that. Especially if they’re used to being the submissive partner, not everybody is capable of switching

        • some_kind_of_guy@lemmy.world
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          11 days ago

          I mean, you’ve got to have a certain level of tact, but keeping your desires to yourself will definitely do some damage in the long run.

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            11 days ago

            There is a middle ground between keeping everything to yourself and rolling up on your partner wearing a chastity cage and collar without any communication about it.