I’d trade my car repair skill for house repair, and my musical ability for math ability. Both of those are far more useful in life. Maybe also trade my computer ability for welding or woodworking.

  • gwl [he/him]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 hours ago

    So many folks here just mentioning things that with time and effort they could just straight-up learn.

    Music isn’t magic, Art isn’t something you’re born with

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      Respectfully disagree with you.

      I’ve been taking music lessons for years, to find that I don’t have the ear nor the rhythm for it.

      Ten years of dance classes, I love the feeling of floating over the floor with an English Waltz. But ask me to stop counting in my head, or improvise rather than trained patterns, and I fall apart, just rocking in place.

      Painting too. Aquarels, not acrylic. I don’t have the imagination nor, again, the fine motor skills.

      The Arts are not for me.

      I am a man of electronics, mechanics, computing, soldering, Lego, woodworking, sailing, geometry, 3d modeling. And I can teach and plan and organise.

      It’s all practical, tangible stuff. That is who I am.

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        I feel you. When trying to paint I want to make an exact copy of reality because I can’t imagine what is the essential thing to make something recognizable as it. I can’t imagine it well enough in my head.